>>11352138
Hey I live in the version of that country that is supposed to be functional and also cold.

We got sidewalks. Most of the time, anyways. I still wouldn't declare this place fit for habitation by living things.

>>11352161
I got onto fetlife a few years ago. Kind of surprised by the sheer amount of accounts that are from my hometown. That means you can fuck up your life in new ways, especially if the gap between you and the totally not normal girlies you want to enslave is perhaps not as large as you think, but its very important that you feel unhappy in ways that are in accordance with the lifestyle you want to live instead of being unhappy the normal way.

>I've tried TPE stuff before but usually the dominant guy has lost interest after just a day or two and ghosts.
From the dom/male side I don't think most people want to actually control someone on that level, atleast not when they're done jerking off and they can think more clearly.

That might be more what you're dealing with. My experience has been, well, still not great, but different. To this day I still don't know if I have fully talked myself into believing that a few of those girlies are stalking me or not but at least I managed to get them to stop stealing random shit from my backyard. Still don't think it was teenagers looking for weed money.

> it's like I'm able to make someone else in my head and genuinely submit to them and allow that person to direct me
I wouldn't be surprised if this was a common experience among submissive people honestly.

It's so much more of their life to them, imagining a ideal person to rule over them could be helpful in getting their life to the point where they could convince someone to take on the responsibility of taking care of them. That probably would weird out a lot of potential Masters, but its foolish to believe anyone on this planet is sane anymore.