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>some polyshit that i am not into at all
I don't even mind poly relationships a lot of the time, but for me its the fact that most of the girls in my age group like that do not know how to handle it and just wanna collect partners like pokemon instead of fostering a meaningful relationship

my first gf was poly and had another partner and for the brief time we were together she still managed to actually balance things well and make me feel special and make time for me. every other poly person I've tried to date since then has not and the contrast is so overwhelming obvious and disappointing. they'll be seeing multiple people and its a dice roll whether or not they'll wanna choose you. I've started avoiding people who are poly *and* single though and its been a lot nicer