The difference between men and women is that for everything that isn't considered conventionally attractive or feminine, many men find it attractive. Men like women who are tall, dominant, fat, and so on. But when women are attracted to men with conventionally unattractive or unmasculine quantities, with the exception maybe of race, it's overwhelmingly in spite of these things, not because of them. So and but for example while you may have one or two friends that are attracted to short men, you can't imagine a large social media site aimed at women with an active thread lusting over short men the way there's a site aimed at chasing trans women even on a right wing men's site like this.