Couldn't hoyo solve the "husbandofags don't want to go on dates with women" and "waifufags don't want to go on dates with men" thing by having dialogue options that actually matter and allow you to pursue or decline those types of interactions with specific characters?
For years now genshin has been doing one size fits all shit and it's obnoxious because they never fully commit to anything and try to pander a little bit to every demographic while satisfying no one.