>go on vacation with family
>everyone spends the ride bickering, insulting each other, yelling at each other over every little thing
>arrive at vacation spot
>everyone's full of fake laughs and fake smiles to strangers and acquaintances and pretends to be as wholesome as can be
Why are people like this. I get being more raw with loved ones but the paradigm shouldn't be "Treat strangers well and abuse loved ones" it should be "Be good to everyone"