>Women complain about men not approaching
So why don't girls pursue men more? In my language, there's a saying, 男追女,隔层山;女追男,隔层纱 (Men pursuing women is going through a mountain; women pursuing men is like going through a gauze).

>Well, societal norms say we can't
It's 2025, women and men are equal

>I'm afraid of rejection and embarrassment
So do men