>>33671601
i'm 34 and i just ate chick fil a in my car in the parking lot 20 minutes ago, bought some beer on the way home and am now drinking alone, on 4chan.
you might assume i'm a loser by that, but i speak chinese and i've been to all 50 states and 5 other countries including living in japan for 4 months and i have 2 project cars and am a homeowner and am a team lead on the bleeding edge of tech making over 100k and i have lifelong friends (since elementary school) and regularly visit my parents back in my hometown four hours away and i have no health problems and i mentor dozens of people at work for fun (they visit me at my desk usually daily).
but i just ate chick fil a in my car in the parking lot 20 minutes ago, i got a couple weird looks. i've met more than a thousand people in my life and i'm not shy, people like talking to me especially at work, all smiles and checking in with me, i sometimes ambush new guys at their desk getting to know them.
i'm a loser, i'm cool, it's all perspective. you can't choose how other people see you, but you can choose how you see yourself. it sounds gay, but with this mindset i've lived a lot more life than most people my age. i could've done more but why look to the past when you can look to the present and do cool things