some people pick up games quicker, some people have played the games 10 times as long as others
most people don't enjoy stomping noobs(in fact i feel sorry when that happens) but matchmaking pitches you against players of similar skill level
if you still get wrecked you're just really, really bad at the game-you're getting destroyed by the bottom 30 percentile, other noobs who picked up the game, 12 year olds, etc.
/v/ is as expected, dogshit at video games