Is it possible to get rid of a sexual fetish?

How can I get rid of this fetish? I had a girlfriend and couldn't get hard at all, I ended up completely flaccid. This fetish has ruined my life. Is there a way to get rid of this? Please help

How do you stop Xanax withdrawals ? I’ve been suffering for the past days, trying to quit Alprazoram, I can’t sleep, I am very tired all the time and can’t sleep, I’m agitated all the time, and can’t get shit done, I cannot even eat properly. And I’m leaving on a holiday in 2 days, and it’s all gonna be tremendous like this, I’m not gonna enjoy it at all. How do I stop? I’ve been trying tramadol as a substitute till it passes but it doesn’t help.