>to get attention from women online and get a gf, you must engage in fetish kink talk and objectify yourself into their sexual desire
>being normal and not acting like a complete whore will get you nowhere. nobody gives a fuck if there isn't anything sexual involved from the get-go
I am naturally against all of this, valuing stuff like virginity, etc, yet that's how it works everywhere.
I figure something about me will have to change, for good or bad, if I have any hope of ever getting a partner at this point