How do I know if I'm a switch or just a people pleasing sub cus honestly I don't get turned on or feel happy in 99% of scenarios where I'm the dominant one other than appreciating the respect... often guys want stuff from me in the realm of like degradation, humiliation, orgasm control/denial, sph, cbt, caging, stepping on them/foot stuff or even cucking or findom or like some guys wanna be a puppy or brainwashed and like idk.. I'm not into any of that stuff in but no one wants to do stuff I like which is fine but I'm just not into anything like what I'm describing either, at all, so I'm sexually frustrated