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Human attraction is much more than secondary sexuals, that informs it to an extent but we have a whole large brain that plans out beyond that in must people of sufficient age. The OP does look effeminate and maybe mildly attractive in isolation, but neither sexual attraction nor romantic feelings really emerge because sodomy is icky and he can't have kids. This is the usual train of thought in straight (normal) people when they see an effeminate man assuming they are not outright repulsed by the more mannish appearance some of them have.