>>543652432
bottling up emotions is never the play long-term, but finding a way to transmute them into something positive is very difficult
I used to argue with people a lot but more or less stopped because it's more interesting to figure out how to share my actual opinions and learn about others' diplomatically
you can be opinionated, but you don't have to be confrontational and argumentative about everything, almost nobody likes to talk around the guy who will interrupt every conversation with a combative cross-examination or by disputing random stated facts that come from a different world view

something to always keep in mind when you're about to jump onto someone is "does it matter if a retard is acting like a retard? will arguing with them be a positive or a negative thing overall?" sure you can punch the screaming homeless man out in a fit of rage, but is anyone really better off after you do that?(funny gigachad memes aside)