Idrk how to describe this, other than that one gay panic episode of Blackadder where he unknowingly falls in love a crossdressing girl
Basically "Mulan" type scenarios
I'm obsessed with the idea of someone falling in love with me while thinking I'm a male
I had my sexual awakening from gay, age gap media, and from catfishing on Grindr, which was the most turned on I'd ever been at that point in my life
Unfortunately this feels impossible to talk about now that lgbt+ has entered the general vernacular lmao