for some reason the girls around my town seem to think i'm some kind of ladie's man, this has been a common sentiment around my area for years, even back in high school there was a rumor going around that I had a big dick (I don't), I am not much of a ladie's man really, i've only had sex with a couple girls my whole life, in fact I haven't slept with a female since 2012....should I try to ask out one of these girls in my city and see what happens, or just not risk it, and let them think i'm cooler than I really am?

how can i make sure the girl i'm talking to doesn't go and fuck a nigger?