If you're a male playing a female character in my game, you will be raped early and often. Only then will you have the barest taste of a woman's lived experience.

>but men get raped too

If you asked every woman here if they'd been a victim of sexual assault at some point, more than half would say yes. If you asked every man here you'd get exactly zero. And your made up stories don't count.

tldr men shouldn't play women.