Imagine you meet up with a qt russian man. At his place, he have 6 cats. He cook dinner for you and there is furs all over his clothes despite him using fur removal tool prior to you coming over.

You see in his closet the hoards of redbull drinks and pistols. The house doesn't stink of cat piss but clean litter and incense. When yoy fucking his roommate comes home early and shouts "fucking zigger!"

It ruins the date and he made you leave from the house. Now we are both upset.