>>536817045
ffxiv and xivg are as good as any place online, but you do have to put yourself out there and not shy away from things. bee you'are self and be cringe in the way that only you can be, and you'll eventually attract like-minded people
if you see someone you find interesting, whether from the thread or just a random, say hi to them. yeah it's scary, but any one encounter can be a genuine friend later down the road

Be it S.A.T.S, Affirmations, Lullaby method I make that i do not sound like am begging, asking, or anything implying lack while doing any of them, i make sure to do it from the perspective of the person who has the desired wish at hands already, Intent is important