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6) casually drop hints of sophistication interspersed with nonsense. For example, you can be talking about inane stuff like sports teams but make sure to drop some ten-penny words from time to time. One adaptable word I use to do this is “facetious”. Another is “extemporaneous”, and even foreign loan words - “gestalt”, “je ne sais pas”, “zeitgeist”. The idea you’re trying to implant is that you’re somehow educated but pretending to be stupid to downplay your intelligence. It gives you an air of mystery, and that’s very seductive.

7) This one I hate because I don’t like tearing people down: Find the loser/punching bag at her job or social setting, and remark on what a drag that person is. If she agrees, now you have a common gripe. The most ethical way is to complain about “corporate” or some non-physical entity, but if there’s a shitty worker, pile on. It shows that you know that she knows and can form the basis of your early rapport.

8) Gold digger alert: I used this once but writing your number on the back of an ATM receipt with a substantial balance works. Money talks, but I can’t vouch for long-term gf material. Works in “destination” cities like NOLA.

9) Hypnotic induction. Learn it from Milton Erickson, as well as NLP from John Grinder/Richard Bandler. If you e ever had a conversation with a schizo that you couldn’t get out of, chances are they inducted you (inadvertently). You can do this pleasurably and add suggestions.

10) If you need a few beers to approach, don’t feel bad. Women know that many men are oppressed in one way or another, so they’ll forgive some beer breath if you tell her she looks pretty and don’t act like stupid.

11) Find out who her dad is. If she likes him, dress like him. If not, find her male role model (it’s usually a “safe” male) and befriend that person. SAFETY lets them feel free to engage in sex, which is not always safe.