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The past isn't fixed in place and you are the cumulative of your imperfect subjective opinions on what might have happened

While it might feel factual, this is actually mental concrete that can be broken up and reinterpreted however you want - your mind will fill the gaps and morph the past to meet your present.

If you legitimately believe every event in your past has the purpose of giving you the best that reality has to offer, it'll arrange itself to meet that vision. The opposite is also true, and how many people do you know sit victim to the circumstances rather than using them as rungs on a ladder?