You've probably already tuned this thread out (within reason) because of all the nitpicky anons that bait reply every thread, but I'll throw this in for you anyways if you end up looking back. Apologies if I tend to ramble. Not very good at being concise.
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Anon, it's not that he "could pick" those normie girls; he's surely aware of them. And yet, he chose you over these other girls instead. Because he wants to accept and love your faults just as well as he does your strengths. That's what I can tell from how you describe him. It's the quality that makes for a true partner. Sounds like a real keeper to me, that kind of man is a rare find these days.
>The problem is that he’s more stable in life than I am, by quite a lot actually.
Hehe sounds like he could be quite the breadwinner then. But...
>seems like he is encouraging me to get better.
He's doing this because he cares about you. He certainly already knows that you're tearing yourself up about stuff like this. And he doesn't want you to suffer that way; he wants to lift you up because he doesn't want to see you in this kind of pain in the first place. He wants to lift up YOUR self-image, not his image of you. And you know you best of all. So I'd say tell him about your insecurities relating to yourself. It'd be unfair to both of you for this kind of pain to snowball.
Though, may want to step carefully around the topic of jealousy to avoid unintentionally hurting him; instead of telling him that you feel he could leave you any time, perhaps ask him why he chose you specifically over other people. Inquire. What makes you worth more than anyone else, in his eyes?