>>513613095
thats just the tip of the iceberg, man

raising kids is extremely physically demanding, the difference between raising kids in your youth at the peak of your health vs doing past 30 is night and day. if you wait till you're old to have kids you're playing on hard mode

just think for a moment, for one example, how easy it was in your youth to operate on minimal sleep, vs now that you are older. I literally cannot pull an all nigher any more because it absolutely fucks me up and makes me feel physically ill, but i used to do it al the time

would you rather be 18 and getting literally no sleep taking care of baby, or would you ather be 30+ getting no sleep taking care of a baby

think about it.

would you rather be in your late 40s and trying to keep up with your son and play with him, or would you rather be in your late 20s?

at which age do you think you could be a more active and engaged parent? your 20s or your 40s?

think about it.