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That whole thing about switching headspaces, yeah it does remind me of a lot of things. I don't talk to my slave friend anything like this thread a lot of the time either. Dominance and submission is such a broad spectrum of things that I keep having to stop myself from thinking that experiencing it the way I do, as a overwhelming force over your entire personality, is the only way. That might be the path for me to truly get how switching works, its a lot like switching voices as I often do when talking in various forms of the cruel dom voice. The act itself is a performance, but it is acting out real emotions underneath.

A lot of it does come down to how I want a very extreme lifestyle, and that is not what most people want. Its why its important for submissives to actually be way better at touching grass than I currently am, I fully believe I am responsible for the life of slaves who believe similar things. Even without this being rife for abuse this going wrong could emotionally devastate you. Having all those partners as part of a larger polycule thing like you describe is probably well, more sane. I know that I never would be happy without kink, it's why I feel so badly for the kind of slaves who are into the same sort of interpretation of it.