I find it sad that these young men are dying / having birthdays and all their families can scrounge together to remember them by is some video game they played or a game console they owned.

I saw a picture of a birthday cake for some guy in his 20s a while ago. It featured a sad model made of cake icing of a guy on his laptop surrounded by beer cans.

That's all they have, that's all their families think of them, it's sad. I don't have anything to say that would help, or fix the situation, I just want to say that I think it's sad. And I think it's a waste of a life.