>>149882174
I get what you are saying, however the truth of the matter is that "just be yourself" is terrible advice IF your goal is sex. So when men go "how do I get laid?" and people respond "just be yourself", they are wrong. They are objectively wrong. If they were being honest they would say "I don't know, plus why do you care about sex so much?"
I don't agree with their honest answer plus question, but if they were being honest that is what they would say.