>>539753449
Alrighty then, but I would like to impart some wisdom for you. We are meant to help build each other up, you should only let your problems affect you yes, but that doesn't mean that it has to be only you that tackles problems.
Learn to let people in who actually do want to help you, don't corrupt them by making your problems now theirs, but don't gaslight yourself into thinking going it alone is the only way to keep them safe. Trust that they will keep you in line and protect themselves if it gets too much.
Perhaps having someone on the frontline with you would help motivate you to push for positive changes faster and to improve in ways you may not be thinking about now.

>>532066138
You shouldn't fake it. You need to search deep in and find out why you love yourself then you can just be happy.
Why do you people act like this is some anime form that drains your lifeforce for turning it on? Literally love yourself. Acknowledge the good attributes.

>>531686707
No, you are perfectly in the right to be miffed about how that comes across.
You are not somebody's side bitch as a friend. Having available free time is way different than "Well nobody else is around so I guess..."
A real friend would make you feel valued as a friend.