the reason why edating or anything synonymous doesnt work is because all men & women relationships have to function by the guy emotionally tying her down to him or she will get bored and leave for something else shiny, and the disconnection from real life allows a lot of tools at the mans disposal to be void which in turn gives women ample amount of time to think about what shes doing and think about what could go wrong in contrast to making dumb and slutty decisions in person