Okay but imagine a rava grabbing you with her strong hunter arms and kissing you. Really deeply. You struggle, but she keeps your head perfectly still in her iron grip as your legs turn to jelly and your brain turns to mush. 20 minutes of this later she asks you if you want to be her boy/girlfriend yet. If you say anything but a slurred, gasping "yesh" she starts over.
This is the art of kissnotism.