>>719944434
It's all the answer you personally will ever need. Also bringing up trannies out of context just makes normal people think you're a closet tranny or curious. Which is what I think you are now, because you brought it up twice in a row.
To your (purely hypothetical, in your case) question, most people end up with who they deserve. You are experiencing this anxiety about having to marry a coal-burning tramp because you know that's the only type of woman available to you.