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the meme about "it gets better in your 30s bro trust me" has some truth to it, you need to be in shape and have a career too, you can't just be a 30yo NEET or some fatso and start pulling hot college girls all of the sudden. Having your head still full of hair helps too. I'm in my 30s and I notice the difference. Not that it leads to anything since I have negative rizz but I do get more attention from younger women than I did when I was their age. (Went from being invisible to slightly visible out of the corner of their eye)
We're barely evolved past our primate ancestors in the grand scheme of evolution and you can't overcome every single primate instinct with logic, laws, or rules. Women are attracted to men with resources, confidence, and experience and always have been, plain & simple. And when I say resources I don't mean gold diggers, I mean "he's capable of providing for a family and I don't have to worry about money issues" kind of resources. It's not like you have zero chance, just more difficult at your age if you're specifically looking for a relationship and not a fuck buddy.
Just be glad you aren't jaded by all the divorce rape you've seen play out in divorce courts fuck that shit I'm never getting married. Marriage is for religious couples who take it seriously (til death do us part not til I get bored). The current state of marriage is just a racket for divorce lawyers to keep making free money off the misery of normies.