At what point am I the bad guy? If someone crosses what to everyone is an obvious line and I give them multiple warnings to stop and they choose to do it again and I in turn cross an obvious line back in retaliation, why am I the bad guy? Are these people genuinely stupid? Time and time again with this guy. Cut him off for good, he spent the last 2 years begging me to be his friend again
Gave him a final chance, game together for few months. He claims I’m a shitty friend for not screaming over discord when he was upset at someone while I was just trying to find a resolution. I never once defended the other party, just tried to see what they could do to make it right. 2 weeks later we’re in a dungeon, healer isn’t the best yet still learning this guy and some retard (both warriors) keep pulling mobs when the healer has no mana. Healer (hard to upset guy) ragequits after the 5th warning, discord asks what happened I explain discord agrees the two warriors were wrong. The one retard gets snappy with me about it I tear him a new hole, supposed friend starts siding with this clown and begins trying to be actually hurtful same as he always has in the past. Wasn’t even about the game at that point for him. It was two faced, 2 weeks prior he got pissy and started bitching about that exact thing. He started basically trying to belittle me and name call so I exposed some personal shit to everyone he’s been desperately trying to conceal he suddenly stfu.
This guy will call anyone a retard over the smallest fuck up you point out hes being dumb when hes genuinely being an imbecile and he starts throwing tantrums.
Now apparently I’m the bad guy according to him. I have always bitten my tongue and let it roll off my back in the past with this loser but not anymore. Gave him a chance and he did same shit within 3 months. Gets some new buddies and he suddenly doesn’t care to be my friend anymore.
Why is it I’m the bad guy when I stop being a punching bag?
No longer a punching bag so I’m the bad guy
