Why do you do it? You effectively waste everyone's time.

>>34033875 (OP)
If you get ghosted, it's because YOU were the problem. The fact that you even made this post tells me that you're a sensitive and whiny little bitch so you were probably super annoying to interact with. Stop being annoying, and start being entertaining and engaging.

>>34033875 (OP)
Ghosting saves you a lot of time. Would you rather talk to someone that dislikes you?

Unless you're concerned that too many people ghost at any superficial trait without bothering to learn more, preventing otherwise good relationships, but it's still better not to care about people that are so picky and immature.

>>34033875 (OP)
its their loss, stop having low self esteem

>>34033875 (OP)
It isn't ghosting to realize you don't click with someone and remove them from Discord after a day or two. Ghosting is disappearing out of someone's life after you've built a connection

>>34033875 (OP)
I hate ghosting.
The few people I ghosted was because I realized I didn't enjoy talking/playing with them. But I'd rather not unadd someone without a message meant to properly end our relationship because they'd deserve to know why I'm unadding them or that I'm unadding them in the first place. But sending a message like that is scary, so I just leave these people in my DMs forever without either of us messaging the other.

>>34033875 (OP)
Because they can with little to no consequences. A lot of people are pretty selfish, so instead of breaking things off cleanly, they just ghost and make an excuse like 'everyone does it' or some bullshit

It's so sad when this happens. I dont want to talk to anyone at all considering how temporary relationships are nowadays and not just romantic but all kinds of relationships in general. In my experience men will do this they will pretend to be your friend or like they like u as a person and like they value you but then will go cold like its nothing they really are low on empathy and i hate them desu how can u be nice to someone talk so much with them just for all of this to be an act and then just stop talking with them its cruel. I know this has s lot of mistakes but its late and i feel overstimulated so i cant bother correcting anything

>>34034622
uhh basically avoidment personality shit. One of the illnesses is a result of instant gratification. Further amplified by anonymity and the power to silence those in anonymity (block).

>>34034635
Im blackpilled about avoidants but i can see myself becoming one eventually. I will be abandoned one more time and i will surround myself with impenetrable walls and withdraw from human relationships such as friendship or romance

>>34033875 (OP)
source for video?

>>34033875 (OP)
people that ghost are basically faggots that avoid any sort of discomfort or confrontation in their life.
Ghosters are such useless little losers that they can't even force themselves to delete you, they will try to play it out as some sort of "indifference" like they are so cool to care, but remember that they are using SOC of all places trying to find people to talk, they are pathetic.

I prefer when people just delete you if you don't get along, some people try to give you an explanation or try to have some witty comment as a last message to feel all smug and shit, but really, all of that is unnecessary, if you don't like someone, if you think they are annoying you can just delete people without explanation and we all move on.

>>34033875 (OP)
wasting as much time as possible is my fetish. I will keep somebody on the hook for years hoping for more and unable to move past me if possible and then jerk off to the messages they post desperately into the void.

>hit alt+F4 in a game
>literally anyone with a brain will say you bitched out
>do the exact same thing in a relationship
>have fifty excuses for why it's not an evasive, guilty thing to do
Cope. Ghosting means you're part of the pet caste and don't possess the strength of ego and good intentions needed to conduct yourself in an adult manner.

>>34036143
Based Shart

Feeling a bit bored today... anyone wanna brighten my day? cccxyy.847

>>34033898
when did self esteem come into this, you actual mouth breather

Looking for someone who knows how to spoil me. cccxyy.847

>>34033875 (OP)
Its more that after talking for a bit I say that I'll try to initiate again after getting this one project done or when I've fixed my sleep schedule after being fucked up again, after I've done this other thing that's more important, etc. Then I'll be more social. One day I'll reach out and try again, one day. That just sometimes turns out to be years.

I've at least stopped friending people and just have a discord chat with myself where I have like 15 ASLs none of which I have reached out to yet. Oldest is from two years ago I think.

>>34038496
you deserve to get ghosted

Only real men need to message me-boys can scroll. hoiyo83

I have never ghosted anybody (that I talked to in the last year at least)

>I'll ghost anyone who shift into "seller" mode and start e-begging.
>Someone get's caught in being underage banned, ghost.
>Someone reveals to be a catfish, ghost.
>Tries to send or offer something illegal, ghost (and report).

There are plenty of good reasons to cut someone off from contact with no explanation.

New here, but I know how to make an impression. Thoughts? Emyzeth

>>34033875 (OP)
Ask them. By now I don't even expect anything else. Normally I'm pretty careless because it happens every time anyway, its worse when you actually met someone physically and it happens. Dating does not always mean a match but if it doesn't you can at least tell the truth-

>>34033875 (OP)
Getting upset about ghosting is something naive or first time relationship havers do. Yes it's mean and impolite but it's often the easiest way to diffuse a not-yet relationship. Often one side will become very clingy or display red flags that are deal breakers. Sometimes these people feast on any kind of attention or reply you give them so ghosting basically cuts around any potential blow up situation. Telling someone why you are breaking up should be reserved for people you've dated with in real-life for several dates at least. Discord ldrs aren't real relationships and are nothing like irl relationships.

On soc, if you're a woman and a man ghosts it's because 90% of the time he just wants to get off and doesn't give a shit about your (lack of) personality. If you're a guy and she ghosts, she got attention from someone else she perceives as better. Both sexes can simply go offline, because online bs is exhausting, and just forget or not care to respond. If you haven't met someone irl it's like they're not even real, everyone subconsciously thinks like this. Coupled with the prevalence of catfish, interactions from this site are fleeting and you can only expect one or two days at most of conversation. Yes more happens and someone will chime in about how they met their husband/wife here but they're probably fat and ugly and antisocial and unable to meet people irl.

Sometimes the best path forward for two people is walking in two different directions instead of getting caught up in old bad habits. Nothing wrong with that