Why do men always flip out when you tell them that a woman isn't interested?

Had this happen last night. Some dude was "concerned" about a female "friend" who started ghosting everybody since dating this one guy, and that no one has heard from her since, so I had to inform him to take the hint that she isn't interested, and this was her signaling that she doesn't want a relationship with him, and the results were pretty much how you expected.

Except I was accused (not just by him, but some others as well--including women) of not understanding male-female friendships, not knowing what I was talking about, and not taking his "friend's" situation seriously, or that I was pulling details "out of [my] ass". And when I tried to reiterate that I do know what I'm talking about, since I'm the same gender as her, and that I know a man who can't handle rejection well when I see one, I was then asked to "prove" it by providing his "friend's" name, which I obviously couldn't do, but I don't think that matters, as he needs to learn when somebody isn't interested and to be left alone.

This then somehow led to a diatribe about me "not understanding" male-female friendships (again), and how this "wouldn't happen" if he was talking about one of his guy friends instead. I was then accused of being an "incel" because of this, even though I'm not the right gender for one, and being mansplained all this shit, and how I don't "understand" when somebody might be "in a serious situation".

It was such a demoralizing experience. Even my brother, who normally defends me in these situations, didn't this time, and said I was in the wrong.

It sounds like he's worried about a friend who might be in an abusive relationship than expressing any sort of attraction towards her
How did you not pick up on that?

>reddit spacing
>not cams or meetups
Go back.

>>34107721 (OP)
Maybe because you're being a retard pitching in with unsolicited advice about two people you admittedly do not know. Stay in your lane and get a life.

>>34107721 (OP)
Today I will remind them. Even if this guy is bluepilled and dresses it up in therapyspeak, picrel is the crux of the situation.

>>34107733
This
>>34107747
And a little bit of this
>>34107766
Except the dude in question was actually worried about a friend who might be in a toxic relationship, and didn't express anything except concern for a friend
>also that pic
I don't understand why guys just don't find more interesting women to talk to. It's never been hard for me

>>34107721 (OP)
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>>34107816
all of you tourists need to go back

>>34107816
What do you actually know about the situation? Based on what OP said, the guy involved is more likely just buttblasted because the girl he orbited got taken and now he's trying to make her new bf look bad. But no, it's totally more believable this nigga took her captive in his basement, lol.
Re: "more interesting women" you are clearly a midwit and probably into very boring, faggy shit yourself, so it makes sense you think women and their surface-level takes are actually interesting. I assure you they aren't, though.

>>34107721 (OP)
google survivorship bias
i literally got rejected for being too short and i just said "no worries"
quit hanging out with shit heads

>>34107721 (OP)
How about you mind your own business bitch?

>It was such a demoralizing experience. Even my brother, who normally defends me in these situations, didn't this time, and said I was in the wrong.
and you still cant figure out that maybe YOU ARE IN THE WRONG??? what a worthless fucking idiot

>>34107721 (OP)
>I was then accused of being an "incel" because of this, even though I'm not the right gender for one
Well, you were downplaying an abusive relationship that a woman is evidently going through, so the "incel" part was at least correct in that respect

>>34107721 (OP)

Because any time invested in a woman outside her pussy is W A S T E D

>>34107721 (OP)
Isolating yourself from your friends is a bad sign in a relationship. Even if her partner isn't outright controlling her, its important to maintain a healthy balance of friends and relationships.

>>34107721 (OP)
male-female friendship don't exist. Men only surround themselves with females if they look attractive enough for them and think they can get something off of it eventually.
Now that he is not getting the same attention he is trying to sabotage her relationship.

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>>34107721 (OP)
>Why do men always flip out when you tell them that a woman isn't interested?
They don't. That happens when a guy has been lead on or used.

kek

>>34107721 (OP)
People don't like being rejected. It is one of the most cutting things that happens to a person that isn't some massive thing like a friend of family member dies/gets ill, a relationship fails, they get made redundant etc..

It shouldn't really be hard to understand why people get angry at being rejected. It is a pretty strong insult in essence - I think your genes are not a good choice, I can do better than you. Obviously you can't run a society where men just lose their shit and get violent when rejected because it would be chaos so people (particularly men) are taught or told to deal with it and just get over it but that doesn't mean it doesn't still prompt an emotional response. Something that strong some people find hard to contain.

A lot of women say they don't understand it but they really could if they just thought about it for a bit. If you put yourself forward for a guy and he turns you down it hurts, same thing for dudes but they also have a bunch of testosterone coursing around them so violent anger is a more common deep seated response to pain.

kek

>>34107766
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>>34111221
>Itt: 'men and women can't be friends' incels downplaying abusive relationships as usual
You could've at least read the room better, op, as that guy (according to you) was describing concern for a *friend*, and never (based on what you described) expressed any sort of interest in. It's also generally disrespectful to make assumptions about one's friends that you've never met, which you admit to not knowing, but somehow think it's not important?

>>34113359
>never expressed any sort of interest
And you claim other people don't understand male-female friendships, lmao. The only reason you fags are so quick to say "um he's ackshually looking out for his friend's wellbeing chud" is because this is the exact type of shit you'd do, become assblasted over the girl you orbit dating someone, and accuse the guy who isn't a chopped pussy of doing something nefarious out of spite. Which, again, is WAY more believable and likely than the dude keeping her in some dungeon where she has no way of contacting the outside world. I don't know what the girl you personally simped for was named, but it's done, it's finished, she found a relationship and neither her nor her bf want her creepy discordian "male friends" around anymore. Get over it.

>>34107721 (OP)
men and women can never be friends.

>>34113430
>t. dudebro incapable of forming genuine friendships with people (let alone of the opposite sex)

>>34114136
>dudebro
>some gay projection, dunno, didn't read
Definitely hit a nerve with all the fags who exclusively add girls off here lol. And you wonder why girls bfs keep them far away from you sex pest male feminist niggas
>noooo it's abuse and misogyny when this guy who isn't a blob of soi actually takes initiative and steals away the generic egirl I keep a goon shrine to
Get over yourselves. No one actually believes your m'lady shit is genuine concern, you're too low IQ and transparent with your intentions

>>34114164
>Definitely hit a nerve with all the fags who exclusively add girls off here
No one (itt) said anything to suggest such

>And you wonder why girls bfs keep them far away from you sex pest male feminist niggas
Because their partners are incels with traditional ideas on gender behavior? Think everybody knows that

>No one actually believes your m'lady shit is genuine concern, you're too low IQ and transparent with your intentions
Okay, incel. Don't you have an ice raid to attend to?

>>34114404
Maybe if you say "incel" a third time you'll finally get a crumb of pu---wait, never mind, according to you women are dating "incels" with traditional ideas on gender behaviour. But good job outing yourself as the kind of sour grapes orbiter I described who's actually involuntarily celibate lel. Sucks to suck faggot, have fun with that

>>34107721 (OP)
So let me get this straight, you heard all this, got told by a group of people, boys AND girls, AND your brother, that you were wrong and misunderstood his intentions, and you are still here on /soc/ asking us whether or not he's an incel?

>>34115940
Well, is HE the incel, or is SHE!?
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!

>>34107721 (OP)
The biggest question is why do some women feel so compelled to ghost men? He's not flipping out because "she isn't interested", he's flipping out because he spent all this time trying to nurture a relationship just for this person to disappear out of nowhere and leave no sign of conversation.
>ghosting is le easy and reasonable sign of me not liking you, tho!
No it isn't. You're being avoidant. If you REALLY didn't want to talk to someone you should 1) tell them, 2) unadd them, and 3) block them if you think they'll stalk you. But ghosting in my opinion is an incredibly immature way to end a relationship. Most men would get over something much quicker if the woman simply told them they weren't interested. Pretending to be interested, leading a man on, and then just dipping when you feel like it is how you make other people pissed. If you want to ghost people, fine whatever, but don't be surprised when no one is on your side for being a shithead especially when you could've just told them no easily. And also, you clearly really don't fully understand their relationship, because you instantly assumed he wanted pussy from her, when he was still willing to be her friend even after dating someone. So you're no different from a dumb incel femcel bitch that makes everything about sex

>>34109859
pretty much. i didn't mind when my ex would flirt and roleplay with others until they started completely ignoring me romantically and pity sex. whenever i would express this he would threaten to self isolate which would leave me feeling controlling and abusive

10/10 thread I'm dying

>>34113430
This LOL