>>149410573 (OP)"wasting years" is such a dumb concept
You can always work
You can never get easy pregnant after 30-35-40. And body and mind recovery easier in 20s, you have more energy in 20s after sleepless nights too
People talk about "wasting years" when/if someone decide to be pregnant at 21, 23, 25
People don't talk about "wasting years" when someone device to spend their best, most energetic and fertile years, sitting in concrete buildings from 8 to 17, wasting most of the sunlight hours year by year, season by season. In my latitude, it's sunset near 18-19 am for 7 months a year. Imagine going to work in dark and coming back home when dark. What a productive years you can be proud about haha! Your boss all those years was chilling in Cost de Azur on his yacht. You were making him richer. You wasted your years