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There have been some games that intentionally set out to give a strong political message one way or the other (like the OP's pic), but the one that's MOST woke/anti-woke is going to be some bullshit marginal game that like as not isn't fun to play.
Of the mainstream games, your criteria are fuzzy. Things like Cyberpunk and Eclipse Phase have had gender being much more than a hard binary forever. Most games implicitly assume that men and women are equal or near-equal. Most games avoid the third rail of giving different human races different stats. A lot of modern and future games from the 80s and later (Cyberpunk, Shadowrun, WoD, etc) subtly mention gay people but don't really make a point of it.
You want a game where you're forced to play a BIPOC AFAB man? Have fun finding it. You want a game where only straight white men go adventuring while women stay in the kitchen, lesser races know their place, and transient are killed? Have fun finding that too.
Or you could just set getting intentionally angry about politics aside for a couple hours and have some actual fun.