>>712752569i know this feel, fellow ADHD haver.
just do a normal playthrough and just choose what feels natural, go with the flow.
you can always do a more focused playthrough later once you have a better idea of what the game's got in store for you. Once the magic wears off, you can always try to do a playthrough where you use a guide if you still care. but don't ruin your first experience(s)
this mindset helped me enjoy video games, once i let go of my obsession with making all the "right" choices, i started having more fun (example: i would restart an entire mission in Hitman WoA when i bumped into an NPC, because 47 would never do clumsy ass shit like that. I'm so glad I'm not in that anti-fun mindset no more)