>>714663542 (OP)its a long story and multiple stories at that, all converging on the final answer in different percentages depending on the person.
every time ive gone into detail about it, ppl throw fits because westerners dont have any real good scientific studies on the matter thats recognized, but in other countries its far more understood/studied. (non western cultures/countries)
or in one cause a 3 day ban for "off topic" despite it being directly related to the topic at hand, which effects the section of the forums being discussed.
but simply put, its the disparity between the way genders are attracted to others.
a quick example that shouldnt bother anyone;
women love strong cheekbones on men, and in turn want to have them as well, both on themselves, and their characters. (loving it on other women)
Men like softer roundish cheeks, and this is even reflected sometimes in the male characters made by men, but more so in the east by a more drastic degree.
Womens attraction system is inherently different.
Then you have to separate women into groups, such as the ones who want to wear less clothes vs ones that dont. and also separate the ones that wear less into groups of those who like it, and those who dont like it.
No one directly discusses these topics directly, but the best person who will eventually teach u over time is Karen Straughan on youtube. but be warned, shes not teaching you about attractions, but her political views. but it requires an understanding of the former, so she will go into detail, and give you the sources.
Theres no point in me summarizing, as ppl refuse to listen. and Im not going through all the videos myself to compile all the sources. (plus if someone really doesnt want to listen, even w/o evidence, they will just say the sources are wrong anyways.)