>>716405910 (OP)No you don't
Imagine planning some really nice date and she's all like whatever about it but in a seemingly good way, then she ends up not showing up, sending you 12 paragraphs of text messages explaining why she couldn't make it and how she feels bad and wants to change etc. etc. so now you have to spend your date night alone, texting her to console her through a total mental breakdown she is having because she feels guilty for not showing up.
You do not want a gf like Mae