>>724942652
>>724943172
I understand being aggressive during sex, and even degrading sex, because kinks are kinks, but the actual relationship, as in hanging out with the person, why would you want to be with someone that is constantly putting you down or acting like they don't want to be there?
And that's what i had to do to keep this girl's interest. I had to pretend to hate every little thing about her, or hate that we were hanging out, or the place we were at, or what we were doing. The more i did, the more into me she was, to the point of changing her entire personality whenever i complained about a minor stuff just to please me. Something that was a 180 from when we first met and i was just being myself, and being nice, because why the fuck would i be something else?
Eventually i just stopped doing it and she went paranoid, constantly asking why i was pretending to be nice and if i was going to dump her? Which i did, but not because i was being nice.