>>11852214>How did you two meet?He posted an uncharacteristically earnest Craigslist personal ad back when those still existed.
>What attracts you to someone older than your own parents?It's hard to say. I've been exclusively attracted to guys ~50 and older since I first developed a functioning libido, more or less. It's just sort of my normal. I like gray hair, beards, bellies, body hair, male pattern baldness, and wrinkly faces, and I like having someone more experienced to learn from, lean on, and defer to. I don't really know why. I just do. There's a few other pluses I've noticed after having actually been in a relationship for around seven years now. 1) The area I was raised in was exceptionally intolerant given the decade. For most guys my age, the idea of being physically attacked for being gay is totally foreign to them. It means a lot that he intuitively gets the lifelong hangups that sort of upbringing can leave you with. That made it a bit easier for us to bond, I think. 2) Our interests are pretty aligned. My favorite TV show is MASH. My favorite (English) film is Midnight Cowboy. My favorite (English) musician is Lou Reed. It's really easy to talk to him about most of the things I'm interested in. (Except video games. Very sad). I can't really say the same about people my own age. 3) It's really, really, really nice being with someone who is 'done'. There's no tension between our future and his career, since he doesn't have one anymore. There's no tension between me and his personal growth, since he pretty much had himself figured out before I was even born. It's great.
I'm sure there's more, but I think that's probably enough emotional vulnerability given to a question that was most likely asked in bad faith given where we're posting.
Also, for the record, my father is older than my husband :^)