>>101133057 (OP)I mean in a space where you never see real feedback right to your face (and if you do it's some major schizo probably) you kinda have to poke around to see what people think/say about you to each other assuming you weren't looking.
The thing is some girls just try to take this into account as unsolicited feedback but others (if they have a massive ego) just outrage farm themselves endlessly.