Looking for any media, preferably vidya or anime, where the male MC actually fucks multiple women and has an actual harem.
I'm really fucking tired of shitty male anime romance with cucked MCs.

Hagure Yuusha no Estetica
Highschool DXD
Rosario + Vampire (the manga, if you don't like manga then don't bother with the anime)
All of the Kyonyuu Fantasy VN's. I personally really liked 3. You don't have to play them in order, I played 1 after 3 and it was fine.
Just in case you're a newgod I'll mention Rance.