Is it possible to get rid of these empathy abilities, or at the very least manage them in a way that helps me?

>>40556861 (OP)
>empathy abilities
Like what?

>>40556861 (OP)
eh, natural selection, either you are born with some degree or without. Its fixed. Sorry

>>40556861 (OP)
no and even worse if you're a medium, you're double fucked.

>>40556861 (OP)
Use your awareness to understand it but don't be attached to your empathy emotionally. It's learned over time. I'm an empath. I'm sure you went down your bout of being taken advantage of in your youth by people who lack it. Control it, don't be controlled by it. Understand that you can only extend that side of yourself to people who you deem trustworthy and unfortunately the majority of people don't fit into trustworthy. Treat it like a blade — not a blanket. It’s not for everyone. It’s a tool, not your identity. Don’t go around absorbing everyone’s pain like a sponge thinking it’s noble. That’s martyrdom, not discernment. You can sense people’s emotions? Cool. That doesn’t mean you have to carry them. Observe, don’t absorb. Start filtering your environment harder. Cut out noise. Cut off emotionally draining people like you’re pruning a tree. If they’re not growing you, they’re choking you. You’re not cold for protecting your peace. You’re smart. Train your empathy like a muscle:
• Breathe before you react.
• Reflect before you internalize.
• And choose who gets access.
That’s how you stop being a slave to your gift and start becoming the master of it.

>>40556861 (OP)
>Is it possible to get rid of these empathy abilities, or at the very least manage them in a way that helps me?
Do you suffer from pathologica altruism?

Empathy is a soft skill, yin if you will.
Balance it with a hard skill, yang. Competitive sports even something like volley ball.
Labor of some sort.
Math or chess if you want to put it in the cognitive realm.

>>40557204
nta, but thanks for the general advice.

i'm at a hard stage because i let someone take advantage of my empathy too much, someone i trusted a lot. i cut them off, but they're kind of exploding, and i'm a bit worried about my safety.
i wish i was more aware of this sooner.

bait thread but yes it is possible to train your abilities so they don't bother you

>>40557468
Kek. If they have nudes of you, you recording yourself doing some stupid shit or your dox, though luck - better file that report with the cops now and get over it

How to become a pessimistic person? Interesting because people with empathy have usually suffered a lot or experienced tragedy relative to someone else's grief. You're probably sensitive.


Yes it's possible.

>>40557468
I've been there. Don't negotiate with terrorists. Now that you're creating distance from the narcissist, don't even give an inch. Learn from what happened and don't repeat it. If you absolutely have to, use the force they're using but harder than they do. But be careful that what you direct toward the narcissist is not retalitory but defensive for spiritual law sake. Narcissists are weak and they only target people who they can get away with their shenanigans with. And keep in mind this is all spiritual. Remove and revoke all spiritual ties, agreements, legal rights in the name of Jesus. And just so you know, fear is legal agreement in the spiritual, you honestly have nothing to be afraid of truly. If you don't know Jesus yet, nows a good time to get to know him. He's the one who gave you your gift and he's the one that will sharpen you. I'm a living testament to that. Good luck and may God bless you.

>>40557489
>train

Fear. Disconnects the tender heart feelings. So op would need to do something pretty bad.

>>40557547
Jesus thought God forsook him upon the cross because he was terrified and shaking with fear.

>>40557603
Because Jesus took the punishment of a sinner. In that moment when he said "Father why have you forsaken me?" Because he was for a moment, separated from the Father and began his journey into hell. After his death Jesus marched through hell and took back the keys of death which were previously held by the demonic kingdom. 1 Peter 3:18-20 "He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit. After being made alive, he went and made proclamation to the imprisoned spirits" and then in Revelation 1:18 "I am the living one; I was dead and now look, I am alive forever and ever! And I hold the keys of death and Hades." He died and took the punishment of a sinner while committing no sin, which means he perfectly fulfilled the law of God. And now anyone who would beleive in him has their sin covered. Everyone is guilty of breaking the law of God. Now when we face God, covered by the sacrifice of Jesus, we are accredited to his righteousness. And receive eternal life.

>>40557657
No it's because he was in shock. Anyone would be.

Thank you

>>40557671
You sir have the depth of thought akin to oatmeal

>>40557603
>Fear. Disconnects the tender heart feelings. So op would need to do something pretty bad.
i genuinely cannot begin to guess what this is supposed to mean, but i actually mean training, pure and simple. you can use classical conditioning on your energy system as well, and make certain paranormal abilities only manifest when specific cues are given. for example, i know a guy who learned tarot so that his psychic ability would only activate when he is doing tarot, instead of working on full blast all the time.

>>40557710
A complement my good sir, one who understands, seems to not need much explanation for the presented topic.

Don't forget you have feelings!

>>40557715
Then this is a bait thread.

>>40557724
0/10 rage bait

>>40556861 (OP)
You should learn grounding. Also yes cut out negative people it’s easier to have emotionally safe people to deal with.

>>40556861 (OP)
INFP?

We need more empathy in the world, sir
Keep being you

>>40558094
This

>>40560473
Factually correct

>>40557739
Why?