It is possible to have the full benefits of semen retention and celibacy but still be able to have intercourse with significant others and still maintain them?

I always wondered why the divine would give us the capacity of have sex, yet we have to let go in order to be spiritual. Its like there is no middle point, be sexual or be spiritual.

Maybe there is one form of spiritual sex in which sexual energy is optimized rather than wasted

https://youtu.be/ZagsLrNzg3I

>>40619895 (OP)
If you are a man of value, you would not waste your valuable vril on frivolities or whores. Simple as.

>>40620167
I don't seek to waste my energy on empty acts with women, I seek a profound and conscious act of connection with someone I love, not driven by lust

>>40620167
Value is subjective. Why should your interpretation of value be taken seriously?

>>40619895 (OP)
>Its like there is no middle point, be sexual or be spiritual.
>what is sex tantra?