How do you deal with all the gaslighting, guilt-tripping asshats who insist on blaming the one who's asking spiritual questions for whatever they're asking about?

E.g.,
"Why is life so cruel and full of suffering?"
>"Bro it's giving entitlement, life is what you make it there's no suffering happening except within you."
"Why do living beings have to consume each other to survive in this world?"
>"Bro you did that. You eat meat and perpetuate it."
"I've had such bad luck in life, I'm nearly blind, multiple genetic disorders, orphan, cancer, unable to have kids, and ugly af"
>"Dude you're just projecting that negativity and causing those problems in your life yourself."

Am I actually spiritually responsible for all the bad in the world?

Is everything truly my fault to such an extreme degree as the meme implies?

Did I really choose this miserable excuse of a body and this miserable life full of challenges with no clear right or answer answer to them? With bad people being rewarded and the best people being punished?

The problem with this assertion is that it results in a perpetual state of guilt, shame and regret. It's a guilt-tripping masterpiece. Nothing good comes from believing that everything you perceive is actually arising due to your own awful nature which you don't even remember.

>>40731854 (OP)
Fight back against your oppressors.

https://youtu.be/vVzWVinJ5wQ

>>40731854 (OP)
>Immortal Technique

https://youtu.be/ZPncMw5oWZs

>>40731854 (OP)
I struggled with these ideas myself. Born hydrocephalic, so I spent a lot of time in children's hospitals. I was relatively lucky - no major cognitive impairment - but others were not. As I got older, the only way I was able to rationalize their suffering with the concept of a just God was to accept that everything is temporary. Yeah, they had a tough turn this time around. But maybe they learned something from it that they can carry forward. Either way, it's inconsequential when you contemplate eternity.
I think we're just here to grow, man. Hope tomorrow is a better day for you.

>>40732009
>grow
How can we grow spiritually if we don't remember who we were before incarnating? How can we keep track of progress if there's so much forgetting, and trauma?
Who's to say that I haven't already learned my lessons in a previous lifetime? I have no reference point.

>>40732009
Based large headed boy

>>40731854 (OP)
>guilt tripping asshats
>bad people being rewarded
Grow up you self-entitled faggot. Everyone’s got problems.

"Not just my problems are my fault."
"All of your problems are my fault too!"
"'What am I doing about it', you ask?"
"Taking responsibility."
"Resolving the problems."
"Preventing problems from arising."
"Creating a proper eternal heaven for you."
"!"
"It's a good thing that you can actually see this message!"

>>40732035
Who's to say that we don't remember it in the place between this world and the next? Maybe we're supposed to accumulate fresh experiences here, over trillions of lifetimes, before we can ascend to the next plane of existence. There's a short story by Andy Weir called The Egg which expands on this idea.
If you did remember all of your past lives (if there is such a thing), do you think you'd be able to function? I saw, and experienced, some very dark things in those hospitals. I dont think im strong enough to handle a trillion memories like those. Or worse.
Yet.

>>40731854 (OP)
Sometimes things are your fault and sometimes they're not. Problems need to get solved either way so what's the difference

DO YOU OWN AN OIL COMPANY

>>40731854 (OP)
Your choices matter. Everyone's choices matter. Some people make poor choices and bring suffering to themselves and others, which causes bad choices from others (vengeance, for example) which bring suffering, etc. Feedback loops.