Is there any /x/ wisdom about why one might attract narcissistic parasites, and how to no longer be seen as a viable host? I've been going to therapy for years, and I'd like to think I've resolved much of my trauma and reflected deeply enough. I don't find their dynamics pleasant, nor would I seek them out consciously, and yet they weasel their way back into my life. Friendships, relationships, the works.

>>40777299 (OP)
Make less money

>>40777299 (OP)
Therapy is a work

>>40777299 (OP)
Darkness can't generate its own light so it "seeks" yours.
You have no walls. No reason for them not to target you.

>>40777299 (OP)
TND

>>40777299 (OP)
Sounds like you’re the problem.
If everyone around you is a narcissist then it’s not everyone else, it’s you being selfish.

To entertain the idea that not everyone around you is a narcissistic person you need to recognize your desire to nurture relationships will naturally lead to people who want to be nurtured being around you. Narcissists are just emotionally starved babies that want the milk of affection.
Be like a 40 year old woman’s milk production, sparing, and you’ll find yourself with less narcissistic people.

Though I bet you’re the problem and use words like toxic to describe people in your life.

>>40778642
>If everyone around you is a narcissist
I'd never say that, but out of the select few who get the closest to me many turn out to be some flavor of narcissist.

Bump

the first minute or so of this song is insanely good on edibles eyes closed

>>40778642
>its always your fault even if its not
Found narcissist

>>40777299 (OP)
Take MDMA

>>40781394
Explain

>>40777481
Make more money and fuck off from everyone

>>40777299 (OP)
>ticks and leeches
that's spiders and worms
you're a bug tester, welcome!

>>40782797
If used consciously and in a controlled environment, its a very powerful tool for trauma processing. It temporarily dissolves the trauma body and lets you think about yourself in a more neutral way. MDMA therapy is a very real thing.
Only once every 3 months tho, and not recreationally. Has some psychological addicition potential.

>>40777481
>>40783916
They never once cared about my money. At least the ones I've had to deal with.
>>40784070
Noted, thanks

Last bump

>>40777299 (OP)
>I've been going to therapy for years
That's one parasite you can stop paying. They apparently didn't even tell you to cut the others out of your life. Block their number and say "not interested" if they find you.

>>40787544
This it took me way to long to learn
we all need to be more weary of who we let in our lifes
especially those of us who went through rough upbringings
Like it took me way to long to learn that im subconsciously attracted to shitty people and what they have to offer because i was raised by them
and the christ cuckery (not to be confused with real Christianity which is rare) made me think all i needed was love and empathy and things would work out
and maybe if i had more thats a cross i could bear properly
but for the rest of us it just fucks us into trying to make the best of a bad thing instead of moving on

your attention is your life force that molds your reality so be weary of who and what you feed it to

>>40787544
>They apparently didn't even tell you to cut the others out of your life.
I do that the moment I unmask them. It's one thing I'm very good at. Discarding these parasites is one of the greatest joys in life. My complaint comes from the fact that I keep attracting them into my life in the first place.

1. Don't be too nice, it attracts them in
2. Give your time to a few people sparingly
3. Keep an eye out for the signs, such as blame games, silent treatment, going hot and cold, constant need for attention, etc.
4. The moment you see they're manipulative, cut and run. You don't need that in your life.

Grow a backbone Anon, stand your ground, maintain your peace.

>>40781252
See
>>40779605

The truth is I can maintain great relationships with others. I don’t need to gas light to get what I want nor do I need to be manipulative to receive attention. Life is better when you’re forthcoming and honest.

>>40777299 (OP)
need to meditate and strengthen ur energy
i think it was the waterfall method or some thing
scares parasites away
takes a while

>>40788070
The shitty thing is that I know the signs, I just find myself too forgiving of these tendencies until it's too late.I try not to trust my gut as I'm a very paranoid person by default.

>>40788070
What do you do when you married this :)

>>40777299 (OP)
its because your co-dependent. this stems from how you were raised by your parents.. it is fixable.

>>40788915
>The shitty thing is that I know the signs, I just find myself too forgiving of these tendencies until it's too late.I try not to trust my gut as I'm a very paranoid person by default.
Most people are unwilling to ditch people when they would be alone. And there is a point to it because people will wonder why you don't know anyone. You can try to keep them at a safe distance, but if they're truly evil they'll fuck you over somehow. Like if the only reason you're hanging out with them is to hang out with someone, and then they don't show up to something you had planned. Fucking assholes.

CEASE and DESIST all drug use IMMEDIATELY. No weed, no booze, no psychs, especially no psychs, no pills, nothing. Don't give them an inch. The parasites use chemically altered conscious as an entry point. All of the entities you encounter, all of the "wisdom" you receive, no matter how benign or seemingly altruistic is a trojan horse, they are lying to you. Pure malevolence.

>>40790364
alcohol and tobacco are antiparasitic but that doesn't mean you should go crazy with them.

>>40790392
parasite ridden fingers typed this post

What's with small towns and narcissists. It seems to be an abnormal amount in this town.

>>40791288
Military intelligence cartels doing crime brings it to towns near you!

>>40787565
Very good advice.
It's also a good idea to learn to shield yourself as well, if even only in your mind, imagine yourself as some kind of warrior, fighting those narcissists as whatever kind of wild beast comes to mind. Basically go Doom Guy or whoever suits your tastes in your head, but make sure to temper it so as to not wield such fire in a destructive way. Peace and Love! <3

>>40777299 (OP)
Narcissists (genuine NPD) are actually something of a blessing to be around. I know this is going to sound a bit weird, but the narcissist serves a divine purpose.

This might reshape how you interact with these types. The main purpose they serve are to as a personal catalyst for growth. They “force” you to grow and to live up to your greatness good. I can expand more on this, but i think this will suffice as only you would ultimately know what your greatness personal good is.

Secondly, They are a mirror of the “collective” shadow. They force us to confront our own behaviors we see in them and dislike (they act as a mirror of our own bad behaviors). They are a bit of a disruptive force that unstablizes us and makes us find a new sense of balance. One could say there is a chance to “transmute” chaos into order.

Last thing i would say about these narcissists is they offer us one of the most difficult tasks in our souls “circulum”; unconditional love. It may sound cheesy but if you can practice forgiveness without forgetting they are a deeply flawed individual (who was likely a product of disfunction themselves) then you have reached a level of heart-mind congruency that will align you with your highest potential self (this is the precursor to the christ/unity consciousness).

Take the time you need to fill your cup back up; I too have been a lighthouse for these fractured souls, love doesnt mean you are a doormat. Practice discernment, trust your intuition, create/enforce boundaries, protect your privacy, and most of all - love unconditionally!

May God bless you on this journey, its not for the faint of heart.

>>40777299 (OP)
Final seconds, where the music curls and swallows itself, incredible.

>>40778642
cool. I would you send you to infinite torture. nothing more to it. fuck you and everything that you are.

>>40777299 (OP)
therapy is designed to insert leeches and worms directly into your brain, notice how the longer people are in therapy the more disorders they develop and they start having to stack potions until they will die of seizures if they stop taking them, their guts start leaking out and they get IBS. sometimes realize they were gay all along and need to insert objects into their orifices and dress like a girl to get the bad thoughts out

>>40791767
Seems like something a narcissist caught out would say.

>>40791655
>ast thing i would say about these narcissists is they offer us one of the most difficult tasks in our souls “circulum”; unconditional love.
>the epitome of narcissism, thinking being completely selfish is generous
No thanks.

>>40777481
Not always true. Some narcissists will want to keep you around to feel good about themselves. They feel more in control of the dynamic if they perceive themselves as higher status.