>>40825524 (OP)Sometimes you just have to tough it out (or not feel so tough but endure) if you can't relocate. Sometimes people confront you and you finally figure out how to make your point while shouting more loudly than them so they hear it. Sometimes they bring a physical fight to you and having to defend yourself the hurt they get makes them think. Then sometime after they settle down, either because the point sank in, or the pain did.
But if it really is just in your eyes and mannerisms, you can learn to act. Just like those who act for entertainment it may take a while to finally get good enough at it, but it ought to be possible. I've met too many people who mistake my lack of teasing/making jokes at their expense as being "nice", but this then sometimes leads to them thinking I'm too/suspiciously nice.
If you can't see any of that working, if you're just gonna have to deal with some unpleasant circumstances, you might as well add to it in a productive way: get investing. Boring, mind-melting, yes. Yet when it pays-off you'll be able to roam freely, even retire early and just ditch places where people are being unreasonable and disrespectful, never mind not having to be around people as often just to earn your day-to-day needs.
Of course, this aura of being easy to take advantage of may still exist. At least once you've done the miserable stuff to earn big, you'll have the money to secure your home better than you can now. Don't try to look wealthy either. If you are already rich, then I guess you just gotta work on adjusting your mannerisms around people. I'm not one to be violent, yet I knew a guy who'd often greet with a punch to the shoulder. I tried lots of things before I had to just give a punch to the shoulder, then stomach a try. We stayed on good terms but he stopped punching as a greeting.
