Does anyone have any good tips / advice for dealing with overbearing lust and sexual thoughts? It is a constant challenge for me walking down the street I'm lusting over and ogling at every girl I see. I have sex probably every few weeks and don't watch porn so I don't understand why it is so intense to the point of feeling overwhelmed by such thoughts. I live in a big city so there are attractive people everywhere, when I visit my parents in a smaller village it is less of a problem.

You've fallen for a cult that tells you sexuality is sinful because it seeks to control you by keeping you in a constant state of guilt, just move on already.

>>40834698 (OP)
I jerk off every few days to keep my lust down. If anything I care about women too little now, with no interest in sex or even talking to them. If I go a week without jerking off I start to get those intrusive lustful thoughts back and they're worthless.

>>40834698 (OP)
>Does anyone have any good tips / advice for dealing with overbearing lust and sexual thoughts?
embrace it. you were made for it. don't deny your nature.

>>40834698 (OP)
>overbearing lust and sexual thoughts?
put yourself in situations where the pointlessness of expending so kuch attention becomes clear viscerally and emotionally. A part in you is not rational and so long as you dont understand its nature you will keep getting baited by random vibes beamed at you by spirits without knowing if it comes from you or not.

>>40834733
>How to deal with lust, anons?
>lol, just jack off :D
The enlightened people of /x/, everybody

>>40834698 (OP)
It all starts in your head, if you can kill the lustful thoughts before they gain any momentum they are gone. Meditation, practice, it gets better and easier over time. If you fail once in a while it is not the end of the world, it is probably even beneficial because it allows you to further study the nature of lust. Of course to truly free yourself however it will require you to give up sexual pleasure entirely. Do not let the anons above me dissuade you from the path, they have fallen for the flesh and will get what they deserve. For now the goal is to become more conscious and being guided and controlled by your lower animal nature is grossly incompatible with that. You have so much more potential than that and to give that up for mere momentary satisfaction would be insulting to the gifts that were given to you.

>>40834698 (OP)
Find a partner with as much lust as you and have fun.
You'll probably overshoot and feel satisfied but they'll want more.

>>40834698 (OP)
I don't any good advise as I'm struggling as well, but the side of me that know that you can't dupe god from you true intention so being honest is the only way don't help.
honestly I think the only way is to understand from where your lust come and that being a coomer is not the answer to that.

>>40834698 (OP)
Allow yourself to take a step back. Realise they are just thoughts, and they are not who you are. And look at why you're having those thoughts. The drive for sex is only strong because the species is trying to survive. That's it. Its simply your body want to reproduce and expel seed. Its not really about oh wow that woman is so pretty, smells so good, has a body, etc. Its not. Every woman you see is simply a meat sack with bones holding her up, same as you. Those amazing breasts or ass you lust after and cant live without? They're just sacks of fat, thats it. To overcome your lust, dont run from it. See it for what it is, as it truly is. If can you do this, you can be free

>>40834698 (OP)
cold showers help

>>40835931
also please remember women are in no way special or unique. Avoid "putting the pussy on the pedestal" as they say. They arent queens, goddesses, etc. They fart, shit, piss and burp same as you. They stink when they sweat. They can lie, cheat, kill, etc. all the same. See them for what they really are

>>40834698 (OP)
the faster your cells are falling apart the hornier youll be. try a high ph diet

>>40834698 (OP)
Find a gf. Give all the sex to her. Make her a happy woman. Problem solved.

>>40835946
Women are just like me?

>>40834698 (OP)
kill yourself frog posting twitter immigrant.

>>40834698 (OP)
Bust a nut every day. Keep a clear mind.

>>40834698 (OP)
have sex 3 times a day so your libido will keep low

>>40834698 (OP)
cut your balls off

>>40834698 (OP)
>I have sex probably every few weeks and don't watch porn so I don't understand why it is so intense to the point of feeling overwhelmed by such thoughts.
Maybe it's because you're craving for the sex you don't have enough of to satisfy your libido. Take a few minutes to crank one off to thoughts of your girlfriend before bed, or alternatively do water fasting if that's morally incompatible with your beliefs.

If its a matter of lust that is unable to let you live, then you are under attack of the "divine feminine" cultists. Reject it at all costs and do not even masturbate. In fact, trash talk goddesses like Ishtar and Aphrodite to put them off.

>>40834698 (OP)
Yeah
What do you do when driven by lust?
How ashamed does it make you?
How much of your life is squandered when pursuing lustful thoughts?
Internalise the negativity and immediately do something good to offset this.
50 push-ups, vacuum your house or room, clean dishes, do something good for someone

>>40840902
So if I see anons walking around yelling
>FUCK OFF APHRODITE MY SEMEN BELONGS TO ME
I'll know they're just taking /x/ advice on how to stop jorkin
Sweet

>>40834698 (OP)
You are probably a mixed weapon, it increase the libido.
Check the horse breeding knowledge, it pretty much sums it up.

In Buddhism, the concept of "foulness of the body" (asubha) is a meditative practice aimed at reducing attachment to the physical form and cultivating detachment. It involves contemplating the body's impermanence and decaying nature, recognizing its unpleasant aspects like impurities and decay, rather than focusing solely on its attractive qualities. This practice is not about self-hatred, but rather about gaining a realistic understanding of the body's true nature and fostering a sense of equanimity.

>>40840871
>Thinks cravings can be satisfied.
When you realize the emptiness of satisfaction as a fleeting moment and that cravings will keep returning as you cling on to the short moment of satisfaction, you see it for what it is and can let go. Break the chain keeping you a slave to your urges.

Wholesome actions produce wholesome thoughts.

>>40837016
>>40837016

yes but weaker. Once you realise this they lose all of their power

I think obsessing over it does more harm than anything, if you think you're doing it too much you probably are, just go play vidya or something

>>40834757
>embrace it. you were made for it. don't deny your nature.
That's exactly what the sect leader would tell you before asking for a sexual favour to reach enlightenment.

Things that increase lust / libido
>eating red meat
>retaining semen for 7+ days
>caffeine
>8 hours of sleep
>calorie surpluss
So if you want to decrease lust, kill your libido by fasting or going caloric deficit, and purposefully get less sleep. Muting your biological impulses will probably give you some kind of spiritual answer to the problem as well.

>>40834698 (OP)
You need a gf, you have too much sexual energy and no outlet for it

>>40842266
and who are you to say no to enlightenment?

>>40834698 (OP)
>Does anyone have any good tips / advice for dealing with overbearing lust and sexual thoughts?
Embrace it.
Age will fix it. As you get past age 30 ,and then age 40 the lust will stop.

You can't stop it at the young age. Millions of years of evolution , survival of the species and 3 basic human instincts - Survival, Procreation and Social / ego / climbing monkey ladder.

Males have a massive sexual organ inside our nose, and half of your brain at 20 is smelling things around trying to find female to procreate with .

That's our human nature. Embrace it.

https://www.learning-mind.com/basic-instincts-dominant/

>>40843634
It's me again.

Basically , this is human instinct.
You can completely ignore everything that come out from various cultists,
especially the Vatican jesuits/ catholic church etc.
Catholic church are experts Demoralizers . They love to demoralize your usual instincts such as sexual instinct.
So. All sexual banning, sex is bad , sex is sin - favorite catholic jesuit / pastor Demoralization manipulation tactic.

Completely ignore it.

>>40834698 (OP)
Just be old. My sex drive is very low now than im a 30 year old geriatric

>>40834698 (OP)
https://yoganandaharmony.com/wp-content/uploads/Sex-Force-Transmutation.pdf

I remember something also about Mantak Chia