Thread 41309348

I'm trying to follow a rightous path, one of virtue. Despite my best efforts, I'm constantly tempted. Yesterday I saw an busty asian girl and I wanted to kill myself like never before (mainly because I'm ugly and that kind of girl is unattainable for me)

How can I transcend these feelings?

>>41309348 (OP)
First start by getting tons of sunlight exposure without sunburning. Boosts your testosterone and neurochemical levels like serotonin and dopamine which make you more calm and motivated and less depressed and self conscious about your image. Sunlight is free energy for the mind and body. After that, find a purpose or hobby to strive for. This will make you focused on something to help avoid lustful temptations and in turn this might make you more attractive to women in general. Women like guys who are confident and capable, looks are secondary usually, but you can work on that too.

None of this is really paranormal at all but hope this helps. Good luck, pal

>>41309348 (OP)
>sex is bad
Christians are beyond mind fucked.

>>41309348 (OP)
Ask your church for guidance, not these schizos.

>>41309348 (OP)
In a few days I'll be 2 years into nofap

>>41309348 (OP)
>How can I transcend these feelings?
One Billion United States Dollars

>>41309454
good advice. thanks.

>>41309348 (OP)
dude it doesn't matter, this is not the real world. Be thankful you're in a "rut", because it's keeping you from procreating, and that's a good thing because procreating would just root you more into this slave world. Keep your sights into stars instead, because that's where the new game+ lies

>>41309685
If you don’t get a gf from it after like 3 months then wtf are you doing?

>>41309348 (OP)
Honestly you shouldn’t even be complaining. Temptation means you’re at least valuable in the world. You’re not dealing with despair.

You should get over yourself.

>natural human responses are le bad
>the jews told me so

>>41309348 (OP)
well I'm no expert
but have you ever considered
not blaming god for the way you suck at life

and instead
taking responsibility
for your own life

hmm?

>>41309348 (OP)
When I see what I want I'm going to take it
If it's against the law, you can bet I'll break it
My need to feed gives me the will to survive
I gotta find it fast to keep me alive

>>41309909
>and instead
>taking responsibility
>for being ugly

hmm?

>>41309609
Sex isn't bad lust , is.

>>41309348 (OP)
She has white panties in the game though loul.

>>41310142
All sex without intention of creating family, or in serious relationship/wife, is sin

>>41309454
This post is the weirdest combination of alpha red pill MGTOW energy and redditor blue pill 30s manchild virgin male energy

No, looks are first. Always is, always has been.

Here's a pic I'm sure OP will appreciate

>>41310142
Define lust

>>41309348 (OP)
ur not a faggot op, that's good to hear. you're not the problem, problem today is women exploiting horny guys. reproducing is necessary and the most important live, cause without sex live is going to end.

>>41310508
>cause without sex live is going to end
If this isn't the real world, maybe that's a good thing? Like if nothing will do will create a better world (because there are forces greater than us making sure about it), then maybe not playing the game is the only right solution? You're at the casino, and there's the slots and card tables everywhere, they're asking you to choose and play some game, but at no point they never tell you what's the currency for buying chips. Would you play at such casino where you don't even know what's the currency for investing into said casino (since buying chips can be seen as investment into playing the games in said casino)? That's the problem, we're never disclosed any of the truths of our world, we've been constantly lied, space agencies never reveal any pictures of the moon that show tall artificial structures on the moon, and they've had such pictures for at least 60 years now. Those running our world just by lying to us are the biggest sinners

>>41309348 (OP)
>How do you deal with temptation?
Badly.

No but seriously, I just try to keep busy to distract myself. If the Devil makes work for idle hands, then try not to be idle. Apparently, in the military during basic training, it's normal for recruits not to even think of jerking it, because they're so exhausted from all the exercise and hard work during the day that the urge just isn't there.

There are things other than family building that are satisfying and fun and bring you close to god. Not everyone is here to breed.

If it's not illegal then just fucking do it.

>>41312694
You'll be inviting demons if you do recreational sex with no purpose

>>41310485
you only have to ask this if you have never felt eros.

>>41310399
good boy

>>41309348 (OP)
Nihilism; once you internalize the fact that no woman will ever want to touch you, you stop caring about it.

>>41309348 (OP)
Are you retarded? How do ugly people exist? Ugly people fucked! Yet people get prettier over time don’t they? Which means on average ugly people fuck people prettier than them!
This is irrefutable, so burn this shit into your minds eye and go out and start fucking with confidence. That Asian girl probably hates her white boyfriend who never fucks her and is desperate for some ugly fuck who she will bang just to make her bf jealous. Accept your role and flourish man!

>>41313099
can confirm

>>41313082
no lol, op is a self doubting chad, he can get any girl he wants

>>41310399
If eating to enjoy pleasant dishes is a sin, something is wrong with the System. Therefore, you must be wrong.

>>41309348 (OP)
>im trying to follow a righteous path
then stop posting goonerbait resident evil memes and stop watching porn
no god needed but yourself nigga

>>41309348 (OP)
Well
I find I absolutely can NOT cum if I’ve eaten Keaton
So like
There’s. Nofap aid if you need one
Of something
Idk lol

>>41316278
**kratom
Not Keaton lmaoooooo

i read some good advice.
make a numbered list of all the consequences that will follow if you continue down the path of your addiction(s), short term, long term, it doesn't matter, it could be that you feel bad at the time/afterwards, it could be that you believe it will start to affect your health over time, whatever. just imagine you never changed your habits, and list the negatives this lifetime is experiencing and would experience as a result. if it's anything like mine you could end up with 12 or more good reasons in ink not to do what you shouldn't.
now make a list of all the good things that will happen if you continue with your addictions. you might be able to think of some, don't be biased, analyse and be honest. if you did list some positives, scrutinise each of these reasons, is it fleeting, hollow, temporary? worth it?
i have found that triggers of temptation are immediately followed by memory of the lists and a logical response rather than the primal abandon they used to. basically rather than basing your efforts on will, which is diminished easily by many factors like stress, tiredness, hunger, intoxication, just teach yourself the full process of and weigh the outcomes your vice in detail, and either it's not so bad overall, and you can keep doing it, or it's not, and you'll stop because you know it's actually a bum deal.
it'd be like seeing your overall lifetime spendings on something like a movie/tv streaming subscription account before you started and thinking, holy fuck, i'm going to pay almost a million to watch a few films and tv shows, i'm not going to sign up for this. and then you don't.

>>41316602
you probably read this and thought "there's no point writing it down like some silly therapy exercise, i already know my vice is bad, that's why i want to quit it!"
yeah, you know it is starting to show some negatives, but behind the scenes, in your incomplete analysis of the situation, you currently experience more enjoyment from your vice than displeasure. you still want to do it, so it's based on you forcing yourself not to do something your own brain really wants you to do with willpower. it's a losing battle. that willpower needs rests, it has weaknesses, and you know for a fact already it will break when a trigger hits you at those vulnerable moments. it's too easy for it to let in a trojan horse of temptation, get a foot in the door with some exception to the rules you try to impose on yourself.
it's about making it click that you really don't want to do it at all, it's shit and not even close to being worth it. it's right there in black and white. you have travelled to the future and brought back the receipt from your purchase. you know it to be your true and well reasoned thoughts, without doubt, rather than just a feeling of guilt rolling around your head now and then, and it would take someone to pay you a significant amount to keep doing that stupid, destructive act, to offset the price you will pay.
maybe i should have used capital letters in these posts but it's too late now.

>>41316720
Barring a huge shift in your daily reality, your triggers will still be there from time to time, throughout the day. That spark, being reminded of your vice, will pop up from time to time, since it will be well trained to activate whenever it can, to start to the process that lead to the pleasure of the vice. It doesn't mean you still think it will lead to pleasure, it's just like seeing something that looks like a large amount of money or a gold ring on the ground from the corner of your eye. Your brain gives you a little alarm, like "look at that, there is something you need to give your attention". that sight/thought has been designated as valuable to flag up by the brain by its training, and that won't just go away because you filled a notebook page with your thoughts.
The difference comes after this trigger. With the willpower approach, you will often find you will entertain the trigger, trying not to "cross the line" you drew, but skirt around it to get a small dose of pleasure from the vice. Then you get trapped and end up slipping over the line, it might take a minute, it might take days, but once you take that small step down towards the vice, it is too slippery to walk back up and eventually you have to slide back to the bottom and start again.

>>41317014
Your list is etched into your brain just as it is the paper you write it on. It is very substantial and real, not just a collection of thoughts but a document you know with all your heart and reason is true.
I wrote mine in tiny writing (and very hard to read, I didn't want it to be read by anyone else so it is almost like a code, with scribbled, incomplete and abbreviated writing. It only needs to make sense to you. Use acronyms, made up words, symbols, whatever), but each thought led to other thoughts, analysis of each point, unpicked fully, and ended up filling every little bit of space on the page. Whenever I get that quick zap of seeing a trigger, the immediate next thought is my list, and then that's the end of it until the next jolt from a trigger. It does not require me to pray or plead for the temptation to go away (at least not yet), I do not feel like veering towards and skirting that line. The thought of my list and the absolute conclusion written on it lays bare all that lies within the process of the vice and I'm just not interested in experiencing any of it.

>>41317028
As part of your list too, I would also analyse what your process of slipping into the vice normally looked like. Presumably you will have tried and failed to escape a few times to this point if you are looking for a way to quit. What exceptions did you use to allow yourself to dip a toe back into it?
Normally there are a few pretty well set patterns to failing a willpower method. There will be things you categorise as "safe", but know deep down aren't, and are actually indulging your triggers. "You" (subconsciously) categorised these as safe because they give you a way to do what you wanted without immediately overstepping your line. You don't want to just step over it, the willpower is there, working against that. But if I climb this tree next to the line, just to get a look over it, that's fine, right? Willpower is bypassed by your permission of the lesser crime, but once the guard is off duty you will steamroll straight over the line and then some. Just dig deep into the psychology, the tricks you play on yourself.
Even if you're not using the willpower method, it is good to pick apart the traps and pitfalls you have fallen into time and time again, and look at it from above, knowing the strategies your vice was able to successfully use against you, just in case. Just because the suspect has been apprehended, you should still investigate how he was able to pull off so many crimes without being stopped for so long.

>>41309348 (OP)
The possible negative consequences will do it for ya. Just be realistic and think about how truly bad anything could get. For instance, I'm constantly tempted by the thought that I could just leave my responsibilities and go inna woods, be based and exist in peace. Or seppuku. Then all sorts of sinister possible consequences denies me that contemplation and I keep being the same pathetic tool as always.

>>41314719
>If eating to enjoy pleasant dishes is a sin, something is wrong with the System.
You're right, it's because this is loosh farm

>>41309348 (OP)
be like leon and find your one true love~

>>41309854
Which baboon would want a girlfriend in 2025?

>>41309348 (OP)
Who is tempting you? If even one woman is tempting you there's no solution other than going monk mode on mount Everest or wherever they go

>>41309348 (OP)
You need to generate potential, and then use some of that potential to solve the problems that matter to you.

You generate potential by resting/relaxing deeply.

I was the ultimate coomer. Once I learned that potential is what matters then I stopped wasting my energy, stopped cultivating self-destructive thoughts, started gaining money, put on 50 pounds of muscle. All by resting more. There is a girl that acts like a whore for me now, I don't let her take me to bed. It's pointless, has no future.

Considering how bad things are with the world, I'd listen to these words with great attention. REST, STOP BEING RETARDED

>>41310485
pp hard, mind unclear

>>41309348 (OP)
Christanity for Faith
>The Bible
Taoism for Wisdom
>Tao te Ching
Buddhism for Knowledge
>In the Buddhas Words
Satanism for Power
>The Satanic Bible
Hinduism for Divinity
>The Bhagavad Gita

Communication theory
>The Trivium
Philosophy 101
>The History of Philosophy, Penguin Books

>>41319927
Do you practice semen retention?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4oiF2I_f0Q

I had the same problem. This got mw thinking.