>>280071746
>Not to the extent that you imagine replacing them
It's imagining whatever happens to them happening to you, so kind of, yes.
>It's not self-loathing if I avoid the deed I find depressing
You can't avoid it, it's inherent to human nature. If you refuse to self insert as a character that just means being the guy watching from the cuck chair suits you. Which makes sense if you're a NTRfag, i guess.
>>280071833
Men are capable of loving multiple women. This is because humanity is wired for polygyny and female hypergamy. Obviously there are societal reasons why this is not the model we ended up adopting for the past few millenium, but this is besides the point since we're talking about porn, not 3D relationships.
>the only criteria for porn then is whether it feels good or not
This is true, and getting cucked doesn't feel good.
>>280071863
>I never said that
What was your point then?
>it is important for you that your pornography glorifies you and makes you feel masculine
It isn't, it's important that it doesn't go out of its way to do the opposite. See the metaphor. It isn't important to me that someone constantly hugs me. But it is important to me that there isn't somone constantly hitting me. Do you understand now?
>Right about what?
The matters you went completely off topรฎc about.
>clearly "normal" does not match the meaning of "insecure
Pretty much every single time i've seen that word used, it was to define normal behavior, so yes.
>you're the one having a littly melty
I'm not. I'm calling you a faggot because you're a faggot.